The birth of a child will turn your cramped little world upside down. This magical event will not change anything, changing everything.
You did not notice that recently in our country the concept of family planning has been treated too one-sidedly? At the head of the pillar is the financial well-being and career stability of future parents. Further, the political situation in the country is taken into account, and this is not the most important thing.
Increasingly, in peacefully prosperous families in peacetime, children grow up moral cripples. Disliked, deprived of the attention of parents, not justified their hopes, annoying difficult age or bad heredity.
But the worst is not their fault. Personally, I believe that this responsibility lies entirely with us – mothers (with rare exceptions – pregnancy as a result of violence). Only we women have an amazing privilege to decide when and with whom to give life to a new little man, and only we are responsible for this decision.
Sex Education Lessons
Now in high school (we have so accurately) introduced a new subject – sex education. What do young people teach in such classes? Preserve health, protect themselves, plan pregnancy, avoid erratic relationships …. All this is wonderful, but … negligible.
Why does no one tell future moms that the birth of a child will not bring material benefits, will not make a fighter, a lazy boy and a reveler an exemplary father and loving husband ?! All that they will gain is unreal happiness of motherhood, and even then, if they are ready for unconditional love at 100%. How to explain the magic of words?
This is when, rising for the 10th time during the night from a warm bed to a crying baby, you feel a surge of strength from the touch of your tiny palm.
This is when, tempting once again dirty ass (sorry for realism), you do not feel disgust from unpleasant smells, and after 2 minutes with ecstasy you kiss all parts of the little calf (and your ass too).
This is when, falling from fatigue after a hard day, it is enough to inhale the stunning smell of the children’s top and regain a second wind.
Talk to me mom
Why do most mothers so rarely talk with their daughters about sex, pregnancy, responsibility and simple maternal delight? Many are simply embarrassed by such revelations, because they themselves did not learn about sex by mothers. And others simply have no time (work, part-time work, household chores).
So, another generation is growing up to nedoms who have children to achieve personal goals. They pay debts through maternity capital, evade hateful work, keep cool men near them. Not all, of course, not all, but there are so many.
And I continue to assert: the birth of a child with the aim to bind a man to him is a crime!
And finally, I ask you, do not threaten your daughters with the phrase: Bring it in the hem – I will drive you out of the house and you will not wish to know it Better tell them how magical and amazing to be the mother of the desired baby. Teach them to be real.
Tell us how you became mothers. Were you ready for motherhood or pursued a different goal?