How to teach a home kid to a kindergarten
For most kids, a kindergarten is a useful and useful pastime. There they learn to be in a group of their peers, play together, draw, mold, sing and dance. This is the first collective in the life of a child, and it is very important that boys and girls attend it with pleasure. To accustom the child to the kindergarten, you have to spend some time: at two and even three years the baby is very attached to the parents and at first parting for the whole day can cause tears and protest. The task of mom and dad is to help the child adapt.
Psychologists believe that a kindergarten in the life of a child is no less important than a school. Another question is how old should he be given there? It depends on the capabilities of the parents and the nature of the baby. Some children already at the age of two, feel great in the team, others will suffer in 4-5 years.
Most of all, parents are afraid that the child will be constantly ill. Yes, if the child is at home, it is easier to protect from trouble. But sooner or later, he must go to the team to get the skills to communicate with peers and other adults, in addition to the family. In games with children the kid will show character, express his opinion, find friends. They will quarrel, then put up, find out the relationship. All this is important, as the child will spend his further life in different collectives and how relations with people will develop, it is important for his adaptation and self-esteem.
Kindergarten – this is communication with peers
You can try to start the morning with a happy children's song, say that your favorite toy also wants to go with the baby in the kindergarten. Let the crumb take not the mother, but the father or someone else from the family or friends. In the end, you can consult a child psychologist who, using special techniques, will help to find out the cause of fear.
Very rarely there are children who are called nesadikov. They never want to go to kindergarten. Here no one is to blame, the child has such psycho-emotional features. Or maybe it's too early for him and if he tries after some time, everything will turn out. The older the baby, the easier it is for him to adapt.
With the problem of nesadikovoj the child has faced itself with the eldest son. He was forced to go to the garden in 2 years and 2 months. He did not cry at parting, did not roll up hysterics, did not try to manipulate me, went quietly to the group, did not always want to dress home, the teachers did not complain about him, but ... in two years the tension began to affect. Three inflammations of the lungs in 8 months was enough for me to make a decision. In the last year of 5 days, he went to a kindergarten from 2 to 3 days. The rest of the days he hung around Moscow with me and spent time on my work and work. All the illnesses were over. Absolutely. Only then (at the very beginning of the school) did he admit that a large group of children and mandatory actions for the regime were simply intolerable for him.