How to disaccustom a child to suck fingers
A kid sucking a finger is not a rare picture. For the first time, future parents can see it on ultrasound: many kids are so entertained in the mother’s belly. However, in due course the fact that the child sucks a finger, causes rather a slight alarm, rather than emotion. Let’s understand together when this sweet prank develops into a bad habit, what is behind this behavior of the child and what to do to parents, so that the child stops pulling his fingers in his mouth.
The whole life of a newborn child is controlled by instincts and reflexes. These are such natural programs of behavior that help the immature being to survive in the big world. Any action taken by the child is a signal for the mother. Needs of the baby is not so much. The child wants to be: dry and warm, full, safe, that he was loved, accepted and was happy about his appearance.
On the problems of physical comfort, children are most often reported with loud crying (how to understand the causes of crying?), But if the kid always sucks a thumb – my mother should walk on the remaining items.
The baby is hungry.Regardless of whether the child receives breast milk or an adapted mixture, sucking is his only way of obtaining food. Smacking his finger, the child can tell his mother that he wants to eat.
- The child experiences emotional discomfort. Children very subtly feel any tension and as a mirror reflect what is happening around. In the first months of life, the child’s peace and sense of security are literally in the mother’s arms. Anxieties and fears of the baby may not appear in the event that there are open conflicts at home. The appearance of a stranger or an unfamiliar person is also a big blow to the sense of security, and if this person also takes in his hands – stress can not be avoided. The guarantee of safety for the child is the mother’s breast, because sucking is not only a way of eating. This is an opportunity to calm down, to feel that it is protected and not under threat. That is why, in stress, babies begin to suck a finger as a substitute for mother’s breast.
- The child feels a lack of emotional and physical contact with his mother. The baby is very important to feel every cell of his body that he is coveted, loved, that everyone is happy in this world. Parental love is the resource by which development and maturation take place. At an early age, the best way to show your love and acceptance is physical contact, including through breast sucking. If a child does not have a breast often, he sucks a finger to compensate for this.
- Another reason why a child sucks a finger is not related to a congenital reflex. Everything can be much more prosaic: the child has an active stage of teething. During this period, children not only suck and gnaw their fists, they pull into the mouth everything that can be scratched gums.
Good day of the day! We have a 1.10 sword, very stubbornly finger all this time, breastfeeding ended at 6 mo.I that we just did not: responded to it with other activities, said greens, pepper, glue leykopoastyr.Nikogo! nothing helps. Any impact on our finger ends with his hysterics. At night, it's a nightmare! All this time I do not sleep at night, because the smacking of a finger does not allow anyone to sleep either a child or everyone around. Just desperation beret.Vot already almost 2 years of the night can not see. I'm already silent, that on the street everyone began to pay attention to the sos Aya fingers (unhygienic) .. and I'm ashamed ((((and while I noticed that the bite was changing. there are teeth front began to move forward. Just horror (((.
Also, like you all, I struggle with this problem. Sometimes their hands fall. But at night the finger of the daughter does not suck. I wear her pajamas with my sleeves secure), but she does not mind. Has got used already