Of course, it is always annoying when something breaks our plans. And we seem to be becoming hostages of the situation. However, do not rush into action.
Such accidents (especially like yours – to get pregnant, despite protection), which occur despite precautions, are sometimes a turning point in life.
To terminate a pregnancy or not is only your decision. The advantages in the second child are very large – you don’t have to interrupt your career later, the age difference between the children is small, the costs for the second child will be much smaller (clothes, toys …). Maternal capital, again.
Many couples believe that the same age is very convenient.
For a start, it would be good to discuss with your husband pros and cons (you can write everything down on a piece of paper, for clarity), to understand what your prospects are. For the future life of the child, it is extremely important that you love him as he grows inside you. Therefore, making a decision, give up regrets.
Love him, rejoice that you are pregnant. Communicate with him, attracting a husband and daughter: talk with the tummy, for example. Another side plus is that you can pay more attention to your daughter, you will stay at home and you will have a chance to give her maximum love and warmth.
Believe me, you are still so young that you have time to make a career, if you want it. And be a successful mother of two children! Many postpone the birth of the second, and then fail or something else interferes.
And you already have what others dream of.
It is your choice to rejoice in the fact that you have left the child, or to regret all the time. For a child it is useful for you to rejoice.