Your two-year-old daughter does not like to walk in a carriage, preferring to walk. And how can she sit in a wheelchair, when so many interesting things have to be touched, studied, checked?
The child rebels and demands freedom.
Normally, at the age of 2 years, the child actively explores the world around him. This is the period of active development of sensory. The kid learns about the properties through an immediate tactile contract.
It is interesting for the child to walk through the puddles and watch the splashes of dirty water fly out in different directions from under his feet. It is so important for a baby to understand what lies under the water column in a puddle.
How it feels and how deep it is. For adults, it is not clear, and often unpleasant.
If the child is dressed properly, according to the weather and the situation, then such a study will benefit him. In wet weather, wear a rubberized jumpsuit baby.
So she does not get wet and care for her clothes will not take you much time and effort.
It is known that sensory development is a harbinger of successful intellectual development. Restriction of the child in motion leads to a delay in its development.
It is important to understand and take into account.
And if you still need to seat the girl in the stroller, prepare something interesting for her there. That will help her with pleasure and benefit to spend time.
To do this, you can buy or make your own toys on the development of sensory perception (steering wheel with buttons, toys from different fabrics and materials that emit various sounds, smelling natural aromas, buttons, fasteners, so that the child can practice their fastening and unfastening). They can be mounted on the bumper stroller. If the child has something to explore, sitting in a wheelchair, then there will be no cry and scandal.
And you can easily take the child to the place you need.
Why does a child rebel and disobey? And is it worth it to stop in the bud?
The baby defends her right to vote. At the age of 2 years, the child must be taught to negotiate.
Do not allow psychological and, especially, physical coercion in relation to your child. With respect and patience, carefully help shape your baby’s personality.
Mom should be very attentive to their feelings and experiences. And if necessary, seek help from a psychologist.
You should be alerted and become a reason for seeking help if:
- the child’s disobedience makes you feel guilty, ashamed, angry and hurt;
- it seems that the child in spite of you climbs into the dirt and refuses to sit in a wheelchair.
Remember this is a false feeling. Your feelings and thoughts are controlled by you and only you are responsible for them.
On the way to managing your thoughts and feelings is their awareness. By focusing on yourself and taking care of yourself, you can significantly improve the quality of your life and form a reliable, trusting, warm relationship with your daughter.