Which parent doesn’t want his child to grow up kind and welcoming? But the spectrum of human feelings is wide: there is anger, rage, and aggression.
The task of parents is to teach the child not to suppress negative feelings, but to manifest them in socially acceptable ways, without prejudice to the interests of other people.
It would be great if the child learns to express his feelings in words. An effective way of teaching this can be your game with your son, in which his toys “participate”, for example, characters from fairy tales or animals.
And parents themselves must set an example and control their own behavior. It is important to teach the child and compassion.
Instead of punishment for aggressive actions, it is better to rely on emotional rewards for showing kindness.
It seems that biting you for a child has become a kind of “entertainment.” If the son is trying to attract attention or express his displeasure in this way, try to negate the effectiveness of achieving the desired result in this way. Otherwise, the baby will go farther, allow himself more and more in search of the limits of what is permitted – the unauthorized.
At the same time in the usual time it is necessary to pay enough attention to the child. Your reaction to the son’s aggressive attacks should be strict, brief and unambiguous, because, as you yourself have already noticed, long explanations are ineffective. The hardness of your intentions should demonstrate both facial expression and voice intonation.
And, conversely, the “victim” of aggression should be comforted, regretted.