It is very difficult to experience a break with a man whom you trust, while you yourself need help and support, because pregnancy is a difficult time, and, of course, I want people important for you to be there. And you are alone in this difficult moment.
When parting, people often feel anger at those who left them or betrayed their trust. And also sadness from the loss of previous relationships and all that past that was, and sadness from the impossibility of a joint future.
In your position, many women usually feel confused, anxious and worried about their future and the future of the child who will need to be raised alone.
The question is whether your gap is final, or is it just a misunderstanding that arises when other people (your man’s brother, his mother) interfere in your life. Maybe it is still possible to talk about the fact that now your relationship can not be unscrewed back, and that the child is already there, he is growing in your stomach.
To pretend that everything can be so easily destroyed is still strange. After all, something kept you with this man for five years.
If you manage to survive the insult and anger at him, it is possible that there will be a conversation between you about what, above all, you, your couple, and your child are about to be born. If you understand that there is a lot of value in your relationship, and that if you are responsible parents, then it may be worth settling all your grievances, then, perhaps, the return of your warm feelings, which, as I understood, were still is it also possible?
But in the future to build relationships with relatives of your baby’s dad will still have. After all, these are the people who will potentially help you raise a child and who will become dear to him.
Perhaps, if you show them enough respect and try to figure out how it happened that you became a monster, you can hear them, and they – you.