1. I had such breaks during the birth! Would give anything to me if I made a Caesarean.
So you can assume that you are lucky.
Perineal tears are the most frequent trauma of the woman, and of course there is little enjoyable. However, a caesarean section, contrary to the opinion of many, is not a pleasant walk in the park.
This is a serious surgical procedure, entailing all the potential dangers inherent in any abdominal surgery. And they, anyway, twice the possible risks during natural childbirth.
2. The most important thing is that you and your baby are healthy and happy!
Few of the women who survived the emergency operation can call themselves absolutely happy, at least in the first time after giving birth. Yes, everything is in order with mom and baby, but how to feel the unfulfilled hopes of joy and relief from the fact that long hours of painful contractions, loss of sense of time, attempts, finally, behind, and the long-awaited baby settled on your stomach? Of course, mothers after a cesarean section are not at all deprived of the joy of meeting with a crumb and gratitude that everything was resolved safely.
However, it is often very difficult for them to accept the fact that the childbirth, for which they had been preparing for so long, ended not at all in the way they wanted.
3. You have to go through it already!
There are no clearly defined periods during which a woman must come to terms with what happened or did not happen during childbirth. Studies show that mothers who have had an emergency caesarean section suffer from depression 7 times more often than ordinary mothers.
4. I hope I get a caesarean …
Nowadays, one fifth of all children on the planet are born in an unnatural way. From urgent need, the operation turns into a fashion trend.
Caesarean section is regarded by modern women as an easy and fast way to experience the joys of motherhood – without pain and unnecessary effort. Meanwhile, doctors have proved that making a choice in favor of the operation, the woman risks not only her health, but also the well-being of the baby.
There are studies that unnatural births increase the risk of allergies, diabetes and obesity in children who appear in this way.
5. Stop worrying about cesarean section! I also had an operation and nothing. I even like my scar.
He reminds me of the birth.
There are no two identical birth stories. And that for some only fleeting trouble, for others it can be a difficult psychological test. Most of all, mothers whose children were born by caesarean section suffer from the “female insolvency” complex, they say, she could not give birth to herself.
Stories of safely giving birth to moms only aggravates the feeling of inferiority. It is not unusual to feel sad when something didn’t work out the way we wanted, especially in such a delicate matter as having a baby.
6. Do you know that you can never give birth yourself?
And you know that this is the greatest experience of a woman undergoing a cesarean section? Also, what is a misconception? In fact, more than 60 percent of mothers who have given birth to their first child by emergency caesarean section are able to give birth to a second baby in a natural way.
Recent studies show that vaginal delivery after cesarean section carries less risk than repeated operations!