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Meet The Working Mums Club Panellists: Gaby Roslin
Gaby Roslin, broadcaster and TV presenter, is mum to Libbi-Jack, 12, and Amelie, almost seven
No one ever does the work/life thing perfectly. Im lucky enough to have amazing friends, great babysitters and the most fantastic husband and we just somehow muddle through.
Im honest with the kids about why I work. We need the money, but also I love working and its good for me. And they understand that.
With my first daughter I took 12 weeks maternity leave. Im freelance so when Im not working I dont get paid. I found going back fine because I trusted the childcare ndash; we had a wonderful nanny.
Being a single mum was difficult. Luckily I was able to afford help because I dont know what I would have done otherwise. And then I met David and had another baby, which I wasnt expecting, and now we just juggle.
Children dont break. If you hand your child to somebody else and they fall and bump their knee, thats ok. When I started doing my radio breakfast show, my friends told me the kids would be fine with someone else taking them to school. And they were.
Its ok to feel guilty ndash; we all do. But life is too short. If you spend your whole time feeling guilty you wont have a relaxed relationship with your child.
Theres nothing you can do about a traffic jam. Ive had times when Ill finish filming and have to pick up the kids and get stuck in traffic and Im thinking Oh My God. Those moments are horrible, but they do happen and theres not a lot you can do about it.
I hope Im a good parent. But I certainly make mistakes. Im a stickler for manners. So when I pick the kids up and my friends tell me theyve been polite that makes me proud.
Im mummy 24 hours a day. When I go to work Im still mummy, it just so happens Im also a broadcaster and television presenter.
Becoming a parent has made me more relaxed. Everyone says it makes them worry more, but Im far less stressed than before I had kids. If they fall over, theyll be alright. We put Arnica cream on everything.
Im not a good pregnant person. I put on five stone both times, not through eating, but through fluid retention. I didnt feel well for the first 17 weeks, but Im a worker, and that took my mind off the sickness and worrying how huge I was.
I hope Im a good parent. But I certainly make mistakes.
Going to the gym helps me stay me. I go as often as I can ndash; sometimes five times a week. I think that at my age its important.
It annoys me when people say I shouldnt be working. If Ive made that decision then people should respect that. I hate the expression the sisterhood, but women should be thoughtful to other women.
The most challenging thing about being a working parent is trying not to lose your temper. Especially on those nights when youre tired and theyre tired and you have to get them to bed and all you want to do is have a glass of wine and a hot bath. That and traffic jams.
Weekends = family time. On a Sunday morning we all pile into bed, have breakfast together and a natter. Then we see my dad, go to the local park or out to lunch. My other favourite thing is watching X Factor and Strictly Come Dancing with the girls on a Saturday night.
Why shouldnt a woman with kids be at the top of her game? It annoys me that there are so few women in the top jobs. Yes we go off and have babies but we can still be blooming good workers.
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