How to establish a life after the birth of a child?
The birth of the firstborn is a complex test of conjugal love and relationships, even if the child is long-awaited. With the appearance of crumbs in the life of young parents, global changes in established life are taking place. There is a lot of trouble for the care of the newborn, and the young mother does not often pay the necessary attention to her husband. Is not it a familiar situation? How to establish life and strengthen marital relations?
Both parents have their own expectations about how their family life will be built after the birth of the baby. However, the real picture often turns out to be far from ideal, therefore the spouses begin to feel discontent and annoyance. The future mother was waiting for the spouse to be more attentive to her and the newborn, and the future dad believed that the wife herself would do just fine – after all, sitting with the baby is so easy.
Do not save frustration, and then splash out displeasure at each other. Sit down at the negotiating table, without screams and scandals, discuss the problems that have arisen and find a compromise.
Mom should be distracted from everyday worries and review their own rules for the sole fulfillment of all duties. After all, if you do not allow the spouse to the baby, how will he learn to take care of him?
Separation of responsibilities for the care of newborns is an important condition for healthy relationships in the family. You will be able to rest from the hassle and take care of yourself, and the father will strengthen the emotional connection with the child. Remember that no one will call you for such a delegation of duties by a bad mother. On the contrary, you will show yourself to be a wise woman who wants to like her beloved man.
HOW TO SUCCEED ALL WITH THE CHILD? Advice to young mothers (Irina Sokovy)
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