10 discoveries for future parents: the secrets of experienced moms
Warn immediately, although we will tell you what you need to know about children, you can not prepare for parenting. It is unreal to understand what lies ahead, if for now you are on the other side of the barricades. You can suck pretty loud with neighbor’s kids, children of a sister or girlfriend and even work as a teacher in a kindergarten. That will not help!
When it comes to your real child everything will change, and your free time and perception of reality will suffer most. Welcome to a world where your heart lives apart from you. No, no, we do not frighten you! Believe me, this is difficult, but very exciting!
So, today we will present you a hit parade of the main facts that are important to realize before you decide to become pregnant.
If you still think that you can get pregnant immediately, as soon as you stop using contraceptives we are forced to upset you. This, of course, happens, but very rarely. And most often those who do not expect this at all.
The female organism is a complex system, and sometimes in order to get pregnant it will be necessary to try very hard: to undergo a lot of preliminary examinations and tests, to put in order your weight and start eating useful food.
And the worst thing is, even if you manage to spend time together with your second half, you will regularly call home and inquire about how your child feels. Yes, and talk to each other will be more too about him
Perhaps for you it will be a discovery, but you A maternal instinct may not immediately arise or unconcealed love for your child. Yes, yes, this is normal. Not all parents are immediately ready for anything when they see the baby for the first time in the maternity ward.
You do not immediately become parents this is a gradual process. But the fact that the appearance of the child will make unambiguous and irreversible (yes, this is a terrible word, but it really reflects the essence of the matter), we guarantee this change in your life.
Yes, now, you can not stay up late at work, and on any proposal of a friend to unwind in the evening or take a walk in the shops, your first thought will be with whom the child will remain?
You will become better to eat. More precisely, start to do it right. After all, children should not be given harmful food, and cook separately for themselves and for him just laziness.
You will be careful driving a car, because even if there is no child in the salon, you will know that you are the mother he is waiting for at home, and you simply can not afford the accident and the hospital.